I Suck at Sentimental Sweet Stuff


Author: fight4urlover

So about me... I'm a middle-aged guy, married 15+ years with kids. I love my wife, and have never so much as kissed another woman the entire time we have been married. When we first met, we had both been cheated on, and we decided that we would not cheat on each other. I think we have both teetered on the edge. Like most married couples, over the years, we have given each other plenty of reasons to build resentment at times. So this space is a personal reflection of my journey of attempting to remain married and true. That's why I started this first-ever blog. The goal is to avoid sounding like one of those "perfect" articles of someone who sounds like they are giving advice. This all comes from personal experience or from talking to other people, married and single, and I want to keep it raw. To me that's more exciting than a well-researched topic. Everyone can relate to this on a human level. I know that guys like to get to the point, and ladies like a good story with plenty of details, so I'll try to find a balance. Strap in and let's ride!

4 thoughts on “I Suck at Sentimental Sweet Stuff”

  1. Do you watch big bang theory?
    There is an episode where Penny is trying to be romantic… and feels like she fails miserably… until she pulls out a box full of precious little snippets of memories

    I’m not romantic… so I can kind of identify with your title.
    But, if you are saying that in regards to Valentine’s Day… My best suggestion would be to look at your love’s love language… and deliver.
    Because it’s not about us. It’s about the one(s) we love

    Not to sound all preachy and shit lol

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    1. I do watch occasionally. When first came out, did not, but some episodes I have seen are hysterical…but don’t recall that one..anyway, when it comes to my love’s language, feel like I need Rosetta stone….feel like destined for a letdown…just not in a good spot now. I hope I feel differently in 12 hours. Have not felt this out of sorts in a long time…

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  2. Well update….apparently, I don’t suck at it so bad. ..message well received. ..sometimes I wonder if I keep my own darkness around me, when everyone else sees light. Just glad that is not most times…


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