Forward Motion?

Well after sending a long text to my wife about where we stand and how I feel, I really got no response. ..until the other day after she asked for a massage.  Had the kids not been hovering,  might have been a great day.  Since then, not much happening.   Just normal boring middle age life.  At least she is not void of feelings for me.  Had some good family time with kids prior to that.  

My GDG across the world has been busy with work after the holidays,  as have I.  Communication was at a trickle for a couple days.   We are figuring out when to have short chats.  

Although we really enjoy each others company,  we are still trying to make our family lives better.   Time spent with her makes family and work a little easier.   So glad we met.  We haven’t had time for the deep conversations we had when laying around on the holidays.   Think we both miss them, but understand that is life.  Having someone else just take you as you are means a lot.

Been back in the gym.  Hit it pretty hard yesterday. …feeling it, but that’s progress.  Trying to eat a little better, and take a little caffeine out of my day.  Think I drink about 8 cups of coffee from waking up to late afternoon.   I love my coffee.  Just trying to hydrate better. 

Hmm so a little happier, a little healthier. ..Boring, right?


Author: fight4urlover

So about me... I'm a middle-aged guy, married 15+ years with kids. I love my wife, and have never so much as kissed another woman the entire time we have been married. When we first met, we had both been cheated on, and we decided that we would not cheat on each other. I think we have both teetered on the edge. Like most married couples, over the years, we have given each other plenty of reasons to build resentment at times. So this space is a personal reflection of my journey of attempting to remain married and true. That's why I started this first-ever blog. The goal is to avoid sounding like one of those "perfect" articles of someone who sounds like they are giving advice. This all comes from personal experience or from talking to other people, married and single, and I want to keep it raw. To me that's more exciting than a well-researched topic. Everyone can relate to this on a human level. I know that guys like to get to the point, and ladies like a good story with plenty of details, so I'll try to find a balance. Strap in and let's ride!

3 thoughts on “Forward Motion?”

  1. Thanks! Normally happier and healthier does not make an entertaining story, but it’s my story. Is what it is…Besides, my life is much more interesting to me now than it was a year ago. Thanks to all following the journey.

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