Fight for Your Happy

Hello everyone.   It has been a while since my last post, but it’s hard to write when your world is upside down with no gravity…but not impossible.  More to follow this post.

When I started this blog,  I chose the name fight4urlover because I was trying to sort out feelings between my marriage and another person that came into my life unexpectedly.   Through posting and getting it all out there, I figured out it is more important to be your own hero than anyone else’s.  Be true to yourself, and if someone else enjoys who you are, enjoy the ride together.   To that end, I am no longer fighting for my lover…  I am fighting to be the person I am proud to look in the mirror every morning.


Author: fight4urlover

So about me... I'm a middle-aged guy, married 15+ years with kids. I love my wife, and have never so much as kissed another woman the entire time we have been married. When we first met, we had both been cheated on, and we decided that we would not cheat on each other. I think we have both teetered on the edge. Like most married couples, over the years, we have given each other plenty of reasons to build resentment at times. So this space is a personal reflection of my journey of attempting to remain married and true. That's why I started this first-ever blog. The goal is to avoid sounding like one of those "perfect" articles of someone who sounds like they are giving advice. This all comes from personal experience or from talking to other people, married and single, and I want to keep it raw. To me that's more exciting than a well-researched topic. Everyone can relate to this on a human level. I know that guys like to get to the point, and ladies like a good story with plenty of details, so I'll try to find a balance. Strap in and let's ride!

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