Thanks for Sharing

Well, it has been about a month since my first post here.  My mind was on  fire with the charms of a new friend, and I was trying to make sense of how I was feeling and put some perspective on things in my life and relationship with my wife.  On the way to work this week, I thought about how thankful I was for some of the perspectives that I found here, and from reading other people’s stories.  I would never have gotten that kind of keep insight otherwise.  The anonymity here allows people to speak openly and freely about the raw, unfiltered thoughts and emotions they are having.

One of the lessons I learned in my life is how much humility and gratitude can better your life, but you have to remind yourself of this from time to time to prevent yourself from becoming selfish and jaded.  That said, I feel like a lot of progress was made this month.  Things are better.  As the emotional climate leveled out, I realized that I still have a lot of work to do, but I just wanted to take a moment to be thankful, and some of you may have indirectly contributed this.


Author: fight4urlover

So about me... I'm a middle-aged guy, married 15+ years with kids. I love my wife, and have never so much as kissed another woman the entire time we have been married. When we first met, we had both been cheated on, and we decided that we would not cheat on each other. I think we have both teetered on the edge. Like most married couples, over the years, we have given each other plenty of reasons to build resentment at times. So this space is a personal reflection of my journey of attempting to remain married and true. That's why I started this first-ever blog. The goal is to avoid sounding like one of those "perfect" articles of someone who sounds like they are giving advice. This all comes from personal experience or from talking to other people, married and single, and I want to keep it raw. To me that's more exciting than a well-researched topic. Everyone can relate to this on a human level. I know that guys like to get to the point, and ladies like a good story with plenty of details, so I'll try to find a balance. Strap in and let's ride!

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