Communication -Take 1

So yesterday was not a great day, as evidenced in my last post.   Today, I am feeling a little more optimistic.   I know that anyone who has been following my journey,  I must sound like a wild card of sorts.   I really am all over the place, but I would like to stay with my wife if that’s what she wants, hence the handle fight4urlover.  That is going to take some changes on both our parts. 

My wife is a good looking woman by any measure.   She smart,  has good judgment and doesn’t have any real vices. 

Well DAMN DUDE, sounds like you have the perfect woman so why are you on here crying the blues? Because my name is NO, my number is NO, my sign is NO.  But I ain’t going to let it go.

Today, I am taking the initiative.  So after sending one of our daughters on a play date,  I asked if she wanted to take a walk.  “Where?” She replied.
Me “Anywhere”
Her – Long pause, clicking on the computer.

So after a couple of minutes I ask again.  She replies back that she doesn’t want to go for a walk. I respond that I need to talk to her. You go ahead she says. So I grab my shoes, sigh and then head out the door alone. 

Maybe she is scared of what I am going to say.  I just want some answers. I have a list


Author: fight4urlover

So about me... I'm a middle-aged guy, married 15+ years with kids. I love my wife, and have never so much as kissed another woman the entire time we have been married. When we first met, we had both been cheated on, and we decided that we would not cheat on each other. I think we have both teetered on the edge. Like most married couples, over the years, we have given each other plenty of reasons to build resentment at times. So this space is a personal reflection of my journey of attempting to remain married and true. That's why I started this first-ever blog. The goal is to avoid sounding like one of those "perfect" articles of someone who sounds like they are giving advice. This all comes from personal experience or from talking to other people, married and single, and I want to keep it raw. To me that's more exciting than a well-researched topic. Everyone can relate to this on a human level. I know that guys like to get to the point, and ladies like a good story with plenty of details, so I'll try to find a balance. Strap in and let's ride!

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